tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299437123526697294.post5552442552003475584..comments2014-07-14T17:58:20.074-07:00Comments on The Great Sage: Graduated SageThe Oracle at Del-Flyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17993091508388916580noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299437123526697294.post-91953909745251495352010-05-17T15:59:11.086-07:002010-05-17T15:59:11.086-07:00Provided that "sexy outfit" didn't m...Provided that "sexy outfit" didn't mean a costume from Conan the Destroyer, yes.The Oracle at Del-Flyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17993091508388916580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299437123526697294.post-3321267789509854092010-05-16T21:42:47.346-07:002010-05-16T21:42:47.346-07:00But, Great Sage, can we agree that the fiance is a...But, Great Sage, can we agree that the fiance is a huge douchebag?Space Cadethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05407401915759149601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299437123526697294.post-91681553493995034082010-05-13T07:30:40.962-07:002010-05-13T07:30:40.962-07:00True, it appears his libido is non-existent, but h...True, it appears his libido is non-existent, but he also may be interested but unable to perform. Many people, even in a day where ads about sexualilty are on during every program, still consider their own sexuality to personal to discuss with their doctors, and are too embarassed to admit their "failing" to their spouse. Most people would consider it a deal-breaker that he is not willing even to address the situation, but this is a decision the Seeker must make on her own.<br /><br />The Sage's objection was the antiquated notion that because a man is unable or even unwilling to perform with this woman, that he by definition must be yearning for a male. While some homosexuals have tried to hide their true nature by trying to pretend heterosexuality, the Sage believes that this was not as common in the past as many would have one think and is even more rare today.The Oracle at Del-Flyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17993091508388916580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7299437123526697294.post-79572485001345421962010-05-13T07:14:12.555-07:002010-05-13T07:14:12.555-07:00Great Sage, I suspect that the sexual orientation ...Great Sage, I suspect that the sexual orientation question is the product of an earlier time, when many men hid their homosexuality by marrying women. I would suspect most of us know, or know of, a situation where someone 'came out'-- or was caught in an airport bathroom-- late in life. Less visible marital problems are not discussed as openly, either (despite all the Viagra commercials we suffer).<br /><br />(And he appears to not be interested in sex with her <em>at all,</em> not just 'not as much as she is.')Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com